The ways of Scripture are diametrically opposed to our human thoughts and wills:
To save your life, you lose it. 
To gain everything, you give up everything.
To be strong, you submit to God. 
To be a leader, you become like a little child.
Regardless of what I think of God’s ways, they are God’s ways; and they are to be obeyed. We don’t follow a pick-and-choose philosophy; we follow the Almighty God of the Universe Who knows all things and is wiser than we could ever imagine. 